<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Psychotherapy]]></title><description><![CDATA[Psychotherapy]]></description><link>https://www.briegeljonespsychotherapy.co.uk/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2026 02:09:48 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.briegeljonespsychotherapy.co.uk/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Why Do I Appear Fine on the Outside but Struggle on the Inside?]]></title><description><![CDATA[From the outside, your life may look like it is working. You hold down a demanding job. You show up for your family and friends. People rely on you, and many would be surprised to learn how much you are carrying. And yet, privately, something feels off. There may be a constant hum of anxiety, a harsh inner critic, a tiredness that sleep does not touch, or a quiet sense of not knowing who you really are underneath all the doing. If this sounds familiar, you are not broken, and you are not...]]></description><link>https://www.briegeljonespsychotherapy.co.uk/post/why-do-i-appear-fine-on-the-outside-but-struggle-on-the-inside</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ad3f03a243629b2a9d84314</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2026 22:04:30 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/6bcb11_e92df7febd4d4a60bbbd190727456162~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Richard Briegel-Jones</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[How Early Experiences Shape Our Emotional and Relationship Patterns]]></title><description><![CDATA[We do not arrive in adulthood as blank slates. From our earliest years, we are learning, mostly without words, what the world is like, what other people are like, and what kind of person we are. These lessons shape how we handle emotions, how we relate to others, and how we speak to ourselves. This is not about blaming parents or revisiting every difficult memory. Many people come to therapy saying, My childhood was fine, really. And often it was, in many ways. But even in loving,...]]></description><link>https://www.briegeljonespsychotherapy.co.uk/post/how-early-experiences-shape-our-emotional-and-relationship-patterns</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ad3f91ea1a9e63e33f8dd85</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2026 22:44:11 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/6bcb11_e0a56cd6664449469ef239f4a4c9f14a~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Richard Briegel-Jones</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Your Coping Strategies Worked Then but Not Now]]></title><description><![CDATA[There is a moment in therapy that I find quietly moving. Someone describes a habit they have judged themselves for over years, perhaps perfectionism, people-pleasing, or keeping everyone at arm's length. Then we look at when it began, and what was happening around them at that time. Often, they say something like: Oh. That actually made sense. That shift, from self-blame to understanding, is the heart of the work I do. Strategies are born of need Children and young people are remarkably...]]></description><link>https://www.briegeljonespsychotherapy.co.uk/post/coping-strategies-worked-then-not-now</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ad3f4fc0d456429c90d1260</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2026 22:34:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/6bcb11_4c962fe65dea4667aa76eaca6faadb4f~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Richard Briegel-Jones</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why Do I Keep Repeating the Same Patterns?]]></title><description><![CDATA[You promise yourself you will say no more often. You vow to stop overthinking, to rest without guilt, to speak up. And for a while, perhaps, you manage it. Then, almost without noticing, you are back in the old groove: saying yes, working late, going quiet, criticising yourself. It is easy to conclude that you lack willpower or insight. In my experience, that is rarely the case. Most people who come to therapy understand their patterns quite well. The difficulty is that understanding with the...]]></description><link>https://www.briegeljonespsychotherapy.co.uk/post/why-do-i-keep-repeating-the-same-patterns</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6ad3f2d80d456429c90d0ed3</guid><pubDate>Sat, 17 Oct 2026 22:18:58 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/6bcb11_048d2656fea04733a0c9b4181d91de1d~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Richard Briegel-Jones</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>